The best videos I've seen are by Marc Sommerfeld, who also sells tools for router use. But he was a cabinet maker for years as well and taught shop classes. He is using a Triton router in his table. When you decide to upgrade, consider the Triton TRA001, which has a built in lift that allows you to adjust bit height and change bits above the table. It is also 3.25 hp, variable speed and can be used as a plunge router, although it's a little hefty for that to me (I'm oild).
A couple of things: Sommerfelt and recently Freud have offered "matched" bit sets. Not cheap, but they allow you to set the first bit in a set, then just drop in subsequent bits without readjusting and testing every bit in a set. This works in part because you drop a half inch rubber grommet into the collet so all bits in the set start from that height. You're not supposed to bottom out a bit in the collet, but the rubber makes it safe to do so since it's not metal to metal.
Sommerfeld has videos on all kinds of projects and his technique is simple, direct and flawless. Yes, every tool, fence and table top is his brand, but the methods are universal.
All of my bit sets are now that brand, but Freud now offers matched sets as well, and that brand is cheaper by a small margin.
I'm like you in that rather than spend time building a table, I bought one from Rockler. I have the Triton, and recently changed the aluminum mounting plate over to a Woodpecker brand plate. Had to enlarge the opening an inch top and bottom, but the plate is extra thick and has a bayonet insert ring, so I can change the opening size to match the bit on the fly without having to remove easily lost screws. I think another brand has this twist/lock feature now and it is a real convenience. The Woodpecker plate is the most expensive, but will never sag.
My wife has been very understanding about my getting upgraded tools. In part that's because she was a quilter with top grade quilting machines. She walked into my shop one day and asked if I was going to make any money with them. "About as much as you'll make with your quilting machines," I replied. My entire setup now amounts to about $1K more than her machines, but I'm still using mine. My wife really likes my doing woodworking, I'm around, do honey-do projects all the time, but not under foot. If I had kids, I'd get them doing projects and helping out in the shop, and moms love to see that kind of dad-kid interaction. You earn a lot of husband points that way.
If you're interested, I posted a long piece on the 17 major things I did to accelerate my learning curve. Covers a lot and was intended to help someone new to woodworking build up a shop over time without wasting steps or money. Search for "17 Things." It was written so a spouse can understand why good stuff is generally a better, safer choice. They don't want you injuring yourself.
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