Coming from a large family (10 kids) we were always taught to ask ourselves "do I want it or do I need it" and "it's always better to collect interest than pay it". Our family, by today's standards, was poor but never hungry and always clothed.
Now I'm 78 years old, kids are grown and have good jobs, house long paid for, no other debts, both of us retired, both of us in excellent health and, I'm told by my accountant, affluent.
My wife is not interested in travel. I'm not, to a lesser degree. I've been thrifty all my life, worked extra jobs, terrified of being poor, mostly bought only what was needed at the time but never went without
To this day, I cannot stop asking myself the same question of need or want. I look at a lot of things as being frivolous, but last week I bought another mitre saw from a sale at Lowes. A Bosch GCM12SD Dual Bevel Axial Glide. To replace my 10" DeWalt DW713 which I know I can sell easily. The reviews are some good, some not so.
The problem is, I cannot take it out of the box. As yet, I cannot justify this to myself. So far I can only think it's too heavy. Large, 65 pounds, Not convenient to move.
I really have to confess, I may not use all of it's features, I really wanted a 10" but they're never on sale and I'm struggling hard to feel worthy of it. One consolation, I've got 90 days to return it. I just hate taking stuff back to stores. I rarely do. I'll look at the box for a few more weeks, I guess. Then I'll decide.
I've let this gush out and I'm having second thoughts about my privacy so I'm going to now hit the send button. Thank you for your time.